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How to Make Friends
My version of Dale Carnegie’s “How to make friends and Influence People”
Bukky Adebayo
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In Defense of Small Talk
Before we can talk about deeper topics like grief, we have to hold space for the weather.
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The Enshittification of Tech Jobs
My first “adult” job was as a product manager for a startup that didn’t have a product. The founder raised 24 million dollars by telling the story of using big data to solve problems in travel. The business case was supposedly self-evident because travel spending was in the trillions
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Managing
“Managing” is how we survive in a world where cruelty is the point.
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Let Time Pass
I arrived at the US Senate as a 27 year-old ready to make a mark. It was the first time I had worked in a centuries old institution. Emboldened by a steady diet of “girlboss” ideology, I wanted to bring tech literacy to Congress. But the Senate operated in years
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Welcome Back
The fall started with the death of a dear friend and ended with my father’s death. Needless to say, I was drowning in sadness. I dissociated from immense grief by burying myself deeper into the TikTok algorithms. I disengaged from the joys of my life like ceramics and exercise.
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Building in Community
“Everything Worthwhile Is Done With Other People” - Mariame Kaba
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Customer Development as Bearing Witness
“Honesty and openness is always the foundation of insightful dialogue.” - bell hooks
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Recovering from Burnout
“One of the best guides to how to be self-loving is to give ourselves the love we are often dreaming about receiving from others” - bell hooks
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Introduction to A Revolutionary Technologist
To bastardize a Nikki Giovanni quote, “I’m 33 years old, a revolutionary technologist. I love.”